What is Reconciliation?
Reconciliation is the process of restoring or repairing a strained or broken relationship. It involves getting back in a better place of mutual understanding, respect, and trust. Sometimes two parties may find it easier to simply stay apart and move on with their lives. However, when reconciliation is possible, it can lead to a stronger and healthier relationship between them.
How Can Tarot Help in Reconciliation?
Using tarot cards can provide a way to explore and understand difficult issues surrounding a reconciliation. It can provide guidance, clarity, insight, and help to focus on the important issues at hand. It can also give an external perspective on situations, which can offer a way to gain greater perspective.
How to Use Tarot for Reconciliation
When using tarot cards for reconciliation, it is important to be clear and intentional about what is sought through the process. Questions should be precise and the spread should be designed accordingly. Some questions to focus on may include:
• How will the situation develop?
• What are the main elements of the issue?
• What are the pros and cons of reconciliation?
• What could help to resolve the issue?
Another important factor when considering a reconciliation is the timing of the spread. When the cards are dealt is often an important factor to consider. With relationship issues, the spread should be done at a time when both parties are open to the process and when emotions are calm and considered.
Creating a Tarot Spread for Reconciliation
When creating a tarot spread for reconciliation, it is important to consider what questions are to be asked and how the cards may be used to provide answers to those questions.
The spread should begin with a ‘general’ overview of the situation. This might include asking questions like: What are the dynamics at present? What could be done to move things forward?
The next part of the spread should focus on the opportunities available. This might include asking: What could we do to resolve the issue and re-establish the relationship?
The third part of the spread should focus on the obstacles that may need to be overcome. This might include asking: What are the main issues preventing reconciliation?
The third part of the spread should be designed to provide advice on how to move forward. This could include asking questions like: What needs to be done to resolve the issue and restore the relationship?
The final part of the spread should focus on reflecting the overall situation. This could include asking questions like: What do I need to know about this situation? What changes need to be made?
Interpreting the Spread
Once the spread has been completed, the cards can be read and interpreted. Each card should be considered in the context of the overall spread, taking into account the position in which the card appears. The cards are thought to represent different aspects of the situation and provide advice on how to move forward.
The cards should be interpreted in the context of the questions asked. For example, a card in position one may provide more general advice on the situation, while a card in position two may provide clues on how to make progress and move forward.
When interpreting the cards, it is important to consider both the literal and symbolic meanings of the cards. This can provide further insight into the situation.
Conclusion
Tarot cards can be a great aid in exploring reconciliation and provide guidance on how to move forward. When creating and interpreting a spread, it is important to be precise, clear and conscious about what is being sought. It is also important to interpret the cards in the context of the overall spread, as well as the literal and symbolic meanings of the cards.
What types of tarot cards should I use for a reconciliation tarot spread?
Ideally, you will want to choose cards that have traditional meanings related to reconciliation such as The Lovers, The Star, The Judgment, The Four of Cups, Two of Swords, Ace of Pentacles, Knight of Cups, and Four of Wands. Other cards you could use could be related to hope and healing, such as The Sun, The Chariot, The Empress, The Ace of Swords, The World, and The Nine of Cups.
What is the best spread for a reconciliation tarot reading?
There are many types of spreads that can be used to do a reconciliation tarot reading, depending on the specific situation. Generally speaking, a 3-card spread can be effective for this type of reading. The three cards can be read as a representation of the past, present, and future. The main card should represent the reconciliation, while the two remaining cards reflect the energies that are affecting the relationship and the attitudes that people have. Alternatively, a 7-card spread can be of use to provide a more detailed and holistic reading. The cards chosen for this spread should represent both parties of the relationship, as well as their attitudes and feelings. The cards can then be read within the context of the whole, to gain insight into the relationship as a whole.