Understanding the Spread
The Tarot has been used for centuries as a form of divination and tools for spiritual guidance. It is a reflector of our subconscious, a tool to uncover hidden patterns of thought, and an aid to uncovering our deeper self. While it is an often-misunderstood practice, the Tarot is an excellent way to gain insight into ourselves and our current relationships. One common Tarot spread is known as the “Reading the Signs” spread, which can be used to gain insight into how someone else is feeling about you.
Position 1: What Are They Thinking?
The first card in the spread is designed to reveal what the other person is thinking. This can be thoughts about your relationship, about you individually, or about something else entirely. They may be conscious thoughts or feelings, or they may be buried deeper in their subconscious. By asking this card, you can begin to understand where the other person is coming from.
Position 2: How Do They Feel?
The second card in the spread is designed to reveal how the other person is feeling about you. This card can provide insight into their current attitude and feelings towards you, how they perceive you, and how much they care about you. It can be difficult to interpret the card directly, so use this card to get a better understanding of the tone and emotion in the other person’s words and actions.
Position 3: What Do They Want?
The third card in the spread is designed to reveal what the other person wants out of the relationship. This could be something tangible, like a particular outcome, or it could be a subtle desire that the other person has, such as a desire for the relationship to take on a particular direction. This card can be especially useful if you sense that the other person has certain expectations or feelings of which you are not yet aware.
Position 4: What Do They Need?
The fourth card in the spread is designed to reveal what the other person needs in order to feel fulfilled in the relationship. This could be something material, like physical affection, or it could be something emotional, like understanding or validation. By reading this card, you can gain insight into the other person’s needs, allowing you to act in a way that fulfills them and creates a deeper connection.
Position 5: What Actions Will Their Feelings Prompt?
The fifth card in the spread reveals how the other person’s feelings will manifest in action. This card can provide insight into what decisions, both small and large, that the other person may make for the future of your relationship. Furthermore, it can offer a preview into what the other person may do, or what actions they may take, as a result of their feelings for you.
The Tarot is a powerful tool for gaining insight into our relationships. By using the “Reading the Signs” spread, we can gain insight into how another person may be feeling about us and what they need in order to feel fulfilled in the relationship. With this information, we can act in ways that increase the connection and strength of the relationship.
What should I consider when using the Tarot spread to understand how someone feels about me?
1. Consider their emotional state: How are they feeling? Are they feeling positive, secure, confident, uncomfortable, fearful, guarded, or something else?
2. Look for patterns and signs in the tarot spread: Are the cards showing similar patterns or opposites? Do any of the cards stand out? Is there a card that stands out as a major influence?
3. Be aware of any changes: Are there any changes from a previous tarot reading?
4. Use your intuition: When interpreting the card spread, trust your gut feeling. What implications do you draw from the card spread?
5. Remember to be honest with yourself: What do your own cards reveal? How do they compare to what the other person is feeling or thinking? Your own cards will give you insight into how your actions or words might be affecting the other person.
By understanding how another person is feeling and what they need in the relationship, we can begin to nurture a positive relationship with someone. The Tarot is a powerful tool that can provide insight into our relationships, offering a deeper understanding of our own feelings as well as someone else’s feelings. This knowledge can help us make better decisions when it comes to relating to that person and provide us with an understanding of how our actions or words can affect them.
What is the Three of Cups Tarot card meaning when using the Tarot spread to understand how someone feels about me?
The Three of Cups Tarot card can indicate that the person has a positive and optimistic view of you. It suggests that they feel a connection with you – perhaps a feeling of admiration, joy, and celebration. They may be excited to spend time with you, and may view you as a source of support and friendship. It could also indicate that they are feeling positive and accepting of themselves and of you. This feeling may be a sign that they are ready to open up and let you in, and that they trust and understand you.